People in poverty make choices everyday to look out for one another and defend the inalienable dignity of all. Their efforts also require the support of people from all walks of life. One of these people is Rosie Payne, an ATD Fourth World volunteer and ally. Below, she describes her experience volunteering for ATD Fourth World at Frimhurst Family House.

How did you hear about ATD Fourth World?

I can’t quite remember the first time I heard about it, but when I did, it sparked my interest. I had no idea at the time that Frimhurst House was in my locality, or what was offered there. Then, a member of my church, Tish Mason, brought it to my attention. She described some of the activities that were run there by ATD Fourth World, and it sounded amazing.

What initially drew you to volunteer with us?

My parents used to take part in a scheme many years ago, whereby they would give a London child a holiday in our home. I had four siblings, so we already had quite a full house, but I saw how hospitable, kind, and caring my parents were in taking part in the scheme. I have many happy memories of making new friends and witnessing firsthand how much joy it gave to the children who came to stay. The excitement was intense, they always had a very happy time, and we kept in contact with many of these children for years afterwards. I’m guessing this heart for people has always stayed with me, so I offered my help at Frimhurst.

Can you tell us about your volunteering experience with us?

I help the Frimhurst team with craft workshops during well-being breaks. I have a long working background in various jobs, such as nursery care, contact supervision of families for Social Services, activity organising for a care home, and GP reception work. I have dealt with many families, and people of all ages, so felt this was something I could offer.

I love thinking of a new craft each time, and I try to make sure it is something that participants can take back to their homes and make use of. However, for me, the craft is secondary to working alongside people, having a chat, and making them feel valued as a person. Focusing on a craft at the same time enables this to happen more easily, as the person is much more relaxed.

What has stood out most to you?

I have loved every minute of my time spent with the attendees at the well-being breaks so far, and have enjoyed meeting the team members in their various roles. I love the fact that some of those that have attended have returned at various times, so I am getting to know them a little better and, in return, I think they feel more relaxed with me.

I have heard one or two of them refer to  Frimhurst as their second home, which is a testament to the work done there for all these families.

What motivates you to continue volunteering?

All of the above! I will continue to volunteer for as long as I am needed and am helping to make a positive difference in the families’ lives.

If you want to get involved, you can volunteer with us in London or in Surrey.